A LIFE WORTH LIVING....: Hot sunny days,I think I'm in heaven!!

Tuesday, 2 June 2009

Hot sunny days,I think I'm in heaven!!

The last few days have been glorious.Spent at home in very little clothing,I have a very sheltered garden so non of the neighbours needs to see me in my cossy:-)

Emily kept Beauty active all day long.Beauty loves the hose pipe but because of arthritis can no longer jump around too much,it just inflames her elbow and causes pain.There were short bursts of water her way though and she loved it and then Emily would get her to sit while she bounced on the mini trampoline and as soon as she jumped forward Beauty would bounce forward too and catch the splashes.Great fun for both:-)

Emily initially didin't want to get her hair wet,hence the shower cap,however she soon decided to just get soaked....

The next day she repositioned her pool under the swing and spent the whole day filling with the hose then splashing and swinging,and filling some more.She got through two bottles of Mr Matey bubble bath and the lawn looks like a herd of cows have been through,because wherever the pool and Emily were, so was Beauty, dancing around trying to get the splashes:-)

Some other sunny scenes....

For some reason I don't remember spending much time laying here.Looking forward to the weather lasting a while and I can carry on reading the last book in the Twilight series to her while she paddles.

7 comments:

Lisa G said...: Long may it continue....I am hoping that reports of a long hot summer are true, but I don't want to say it out loud in case I jinx it!; 2 June 2009 at 22:35
Shirl said...: Yep, what magnificent weather and I love your photos ... :0)

Shirl x; 3 June 2009 at 08:10
Joanne said...: Hello; 3 June 2009 at 11:15
Joanne said...: Sorry about the before comment was having promblems with my internet.
Hi I thought it was time to introduce myself, I've been reading your blog for a kittle while now. I love this post it so looks like you are having so much fun. I'm about to embark on the jorney of homeschooling with my three wonderful children. If we have half as much fun as it seems like you do I'll be a very happy mummy.

Love the photo's

Joanne x; 3 June 2009 at 11:19
Joanne said...: Hi again, thank you for popping across to my blog, after my last comments I wrote the de register letters for the head teachers and took them up to school so as of Monday we will be home schooling now just hoping it was the right thing to do.

look forward to sharing our days with you.

Joanne x; 3 June 2009 at 18:12
Joanne said...: Hi Lynn, thank you so much for your kind commet, I'm really struggling with our desision today but i'm sure it will be fine once we get started and thank you for your advise we are not sure yet how we are going to play it but we will take it slowly and let the kiddies ease into it.

joanne x; 4 June 2009 at 20:13
wolf girl (millie) said...: Hi Joanne,I had wobbles for ages when we first took Emily out:-) There are lot's of things to read to help ease the jitters,I have links on the sidebar that might be of help.

Feel free to email me on pixiemum@yahoo.co.uk.I am not an expert by any means but I have been where you are and it is quite scary to begin with!! xxx Emily is signed in on her blog but it is from Lynn :-)); 4 June 2009 at 20:20

This is me.....

There comes a time when you have to stand up and shout: This is me damn it! I look the way I look, think the way I think, feel the way I feel, love the way I love! I am a whole complex package. Take me... or leave me. Accept me - or walk away! Do not try to make me feel like less of a person, just because I don't fit your idea of who I should be and don't try to change me to fit your mold. If I need to change, I alone will make that decision.When you are strong enough to love yourself 100%, good and bad - you will be amazed at the opportunities that life presents you.” Stacey Charter.

Why we Home educate

( Slightly edited from a blog post I did when we started out) In the end the actual decision to take Emily out only took a matter of days but before that it had been around a year and a half of talking about ti and reading books, Free range education by Terri Dowty, Educating your child at home by Jane Lowe and Alan Thomas were two that had a real impact for different reasons. Free range education has lots of examples of real life home educators and I think I can say that it was this one that convinced me the most that we could do it. We are two very average people ,neither of us left school with many qualifications, we went on to do quite well in our chosen professions and had no need to think about the education system at all until Emily came along.

I knew about home education and when Emily was born considered it as an optionbut always felt my lack of education would be a problem and that I wouldn't be capable of providing her with what she would need.Looking back with hindsight it is easy to see how wrong I was!!

School never really suited Emily......After the nursery year at a very highly rated, high achieving school we knew that particular School wasn't for us and took her out. We enrolled her in a lovely village school with only 70 children in the whole school .The ethos of the school was totally different, the children didn't wear uniforms and there was much more emphasis on the children being individuals.The head was a sensitive and principled man who wanted the best for the children. We thought we had struck gold.Over the reception and year 1 Emily gained confidence and really started to bloom. It was at this time she was diagnosed with dyspraxia( we had had to go down the diagnosis route as our observations of Emily's difficulties were not enough to enable the teachers to tailor things so she was helped and given less work in class) but she managed quite well in the more relaxed play orientated early years.Year 2 with more emphasis on academic activities got progressively harder for her. She is very sensitive and it wasn't just the academic side it was the embarassment of having to put her hand up for the toilet,seeing others being told off and worrying in case she did something wrong and got the same treatment, panicking because she couldn't do the work and the teacher never had time to sit with her (alot of this did not come out until she had left school) her behaviour at home became worse and worse she was so angry and obviously stressed . At this time we began to seriously consider taking her out but held back because of my lack of confidence in my ability to provide her with an adequate education ,my health being so poor was also a major stumbling block.

Then in year three it became blatantly obvious that something needed to change .She was struggling on all levels and we couldn't allow the school system to damage our daughter anymore.She became ill with a bug that was doing the rounds and she was off for two weeks , during that time I had a conversation with a friend who home educates her two children and I was so upset I couldn't make a decision and she said just go with whats in your heart and that really helped me to shift my thinking and stop worrying about what I couldn't give her and focus on what I could give her.

We never sent her back.I still get emotional when I think of that time , the look on Emily's face when we told her she would never have to go back to school was priceless,the immense sense of relief that we were off the treadmill of school life and the excitement of the time ahead and to be honest the fear of the unknown......

So here we are four years on and a lot of reading and researching later I feel comfortable with what we are doing . The changes that have happened so far have been helped along the way by the many wonderful blogs out there.They are so varied and there are so many different approaches , I have found ones that I can identify with and have read a lot of archive material that has been written in each and found answers to so many of the questions I have had that they have helped me to sort out what will work best for us .As much as I wish we had done this earlier and saved Emily from the distress that she went through I do believe things happen for a reason and that the time was right for us to take her out and that looking on the bright side one of the benefits is that at least she has had a taste of school and now we all know without a doubt that it is not for us !!!!

It is very liberating to be making decisions based on what works best for us as a family and not what society expects.

Let your child be a child.

No child was ever spoiled by too much love.

Be authentic with your child.

Listen openly to your child’s needs.

Believe in your child’s good intentions.

Find the humour.

Look past the behaviour… what is your child feeling?

Have fun with your child today!

“There is no reason why we cannot say ‘No’ to children in just as kind a way as we say ‘Yes’.” - John Holt

“Play is really the work of childhood.” - Fred Rogers

“The best way to make children good is to make them happy.” - Oscar Wilde

Children thrive in a peaceful and loving environment.

A child needs love most when things go wrong.

Children reflect the treatment they receive.

A few qoutes I like....

Life shouldn't be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in, broadside, thouroughly used up, totally worn out and loudly shouting, 'WOW'.... Beth Moore

The perpetual testing of public school children is like a gardener constantly pulling his plants up by the roots to see if they are growing....(unknown)

Children require guidance and sympathy far more than instuction...Helen Kellers teacher

I hear and I forget I see and I remember I do and I understand...Confusious