A LIFE WORTH LIVING....: Pokemon fever has hit.....

Monday 20 July 2009

Pokemon fever has hit.....

Still feeling rather withdrawn,you know,just not having any energy to make any plans and finding it extra hard to make conversation?Everything just seems such hard work.I have however been given a delightful Australian bush flower concoction to take each day, the ingredients include Mulla mulla,she oak,and sunshine wattle,from my homeopath,alongside the Folliculinam and Emerald she also prescribed over the last week,I have great hopes of feeling better soon:-)

Decided to post some pics.We have had a very quiet few weeks.We didn't want to go anywhere last Monday, but late morning Milly asked if we could go in to the toy shop to look for another starter pack of Pokemon so her and Al could play later.I would have preferred not to but decided it would do us both some good and off we went.We ate at a cafe and as it was nice weather ate outside.Off to the park and Milly made friends with two boys,8 and 10,Pokemaon cards being the ice breaker:-)They were on holiday from Scotland.We ended up in the park for nearly two hours and they had a great time. They then swapped mobile numbers, email and MSN details:-)I also had a nice chat with their Mum.They will be back down in a couple of weeks so will see if we can arrange a get together then.Glad we made the effort to get out.

On the following day Milly and I set off for The Beacon in Whitehaven.A nice afternoon with Lunch first, then an explore around the Museum.As we entered,the lady on the front desk told us about a quiz sheet we could do as we went round,I took one just in case, but as is normal, it arrived back home in the bottom of my bag! Milly involved me in a game of Torchwood as we went round.We spent some time on a section about food rations during the war and having to work out what meals we could have through the week to keep within the set budget.Milly opted for bread and dripping or other similar priced items during the week but splurged on the weekend as she felt that would be a nice time to treat yourself:-)Flitted from section to section doing whatever took her fancy and then back out to find some pokemon booster packs in town.

Top area, a veiwing gallery and exhibits about weather and a booth where you can be a weather presenter and see yourself on a monitor.

The view...

A scary looking highwayman...

Then and now,how fashion has changed:-)Milly decorated the back of her hand and down her fingers with heart tattoos before leaving home!

1 comment:

Lisa G said...: Sorry you're feeling under the weather, hope you feel better soon!; 21 July 2009 at 14:34

This is me.....

There comes a time when you have to stand up and shout: This is me damn it! I look the way I look, think the way I think, feel the way I feel, love the way I love! I am a whole complex package. Take me... or leave me. Accept me - or walk away! Do not try to make me feel like less of a person, just because I don't fit your idea of who I should be and don't try to change me to fit your mold. If I need to change, I alone will make that decision.When you are strong enough to love yourself 100%, good and bad - you will be amazed at the opportunities that life presents you.” Stacey Charter.

Why we Home educate

( Slightly edited from a blog post I did when we started out) In the end the actual decision to take Emily out only took a matter of days but before that it had been around a year and a half of talking about ti and reading books, Free range education by Terri Dowty, Educating your child at home by Jane Lowe and Alan Thomas were two that had a real impact for different reasons. Free range education has lots of examples of real life home educators and I think I can say that it was this one that convinced me the most that we could do it. We are two very average people ,neither of us left school with many qualifications, we went on to do quite well in our chosen professions and had no need to think about the education system at all until Emily came along.

I knew about home education and when Emily was born considered it as an optionbut always felt my lack of education would be a problem and that I wouldn't be capable of providing her with what she would need.Looking back with hindsight it is easy to see how wrong I was!!

School never really suited Emily......After the nursery year at a very highly rated, high achieving school we knew that particular School wasn't for us and took her out. We enrolled her in a lovely village school with only 70 children in the whole school .The ethos of the school was totally different, the children didn't wear uniforms and there was much more emphasis on the children being individuals.The head was a sensitive and principled man who wanted the best for the children. We thought we had struck gold.Over the reception and year 1 Emily gained confidence and really started to bloom. It was at this time she was diagnosed with dyspraxia( we had had to go down the diagnosis route as our observations of Emily's difficulties were not enough to enable the teachers to tailor things so she was helped and given less work in class) but she managed quite well in the more relaxed play orientated early years.Year 2 with more emphasis on academic activities got progressively harder for her. She is very sensitive and it wasn't just the academic side it was the embarassment of having to put her hand up for the toilet,seeing others being told off and worrying in case she did something wrong and got the same treatment, panicking because she couldn't do the work and the teacher never had time to sit with her (alot of this did not come out until she had left school) her behaviour at home became worse and worse she was so angry and obviously stressed . At this time we began to seriously consider taking her out but held back because of my lack of confidence in my ability to provide her with an adequate education ,my health being so poor was also a major stumbling block.

Then in year three it became blatantly obvious that something needed to change .She was struggling on all levels and we couldn't allow the school system to damage our daughter anymore.She became ill with a bug that was doing the rounds and she was off for two weeks , during that time I had a conversation with a friend who home educates her two children and I was so upset I couldn't make a decision and she said just go with whats in your heart and that really helped me to shift my thinking and stop worrying about what I couldn't give her and focus on what I could give her.

We never sent her back.I still get emotional when I think of that time , the look on Emily's face when we told her she would never have to go back to school was priceless,the immense sense of relief that we were off the treadmill of school life and the excitement of the time ahead and to be honest the fear of the unknown......

So here we are four years on and a lot of reading and researching later I feel comfortable with what we are doing . The changes that have happened so far have been helped along the way by the many wonderful blogs out there.They are so varied and there are so many different approaches , I have found ones that I can identify with and have read a lot of archive material that has been written in each and found answers to so many of the questions I have had that they have helped me to sort out what will work best for us .As much as I wish we had done this earlier and saved Emily from the distress that she went through I do believe things happen for a reason and that the time was right for us to take her out and that looking on the bright side one of the benefits is that at least she has had a taste of school and now we all know without a doubt that it is not for us !!!!

It is very liberating to be making decisions based on what works best for us as a family and not what society expects.

Let your child be a child.

No child was ever spoiled by too much love.

Be authentic with your child.

Listen openly to your child’s needs.

Believe in your child’s good intentions.

Find the humour.

Look past the behaviour… what is your child feeling?

Have fun with your child today!

“There is no reason why we cannot say ‘No’ to children in just as kind a way as we say ‘Yes’.” - John Holt

“Play is really the work of childhood.” - Fred Rogers

“The best way to make children good is to make them happy.” - Oscar Wilde

Children thrive in a peaceful and loving environment.

A child needs love most when things go wrong.

Children reflect the treatment they receive.

A few qoutes I like....

Life shouldn't be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in, broadside, thouroughly used up, totally worn out and loudly shouting, 'WOW'.... Beth Moore

The perpetual testing of public school children is like a gardener constantly pulling his plants up by the roots to see if they are growing....(unknown)

Children require guidance and sympathy far more than instuction...Helen Kellers teacher

I hear and I forget I see and I remember I do and I understand...Confusious