Just found this link on Warts and all, I have read a lot on the joyfully rejoicing site I had forgotten this .So appropriate based on the struggle I have been having recently.....
My insatiable hunger for knowledge about Jacob’s challenges was replaced with the ultimate reinforcement that our present unschooling life was most definitely the right path for us. It was time to put the research down and continue with life…with unschooling, as unschooling IS life. And yet we now had a new understanding, compassion and empathy for those gifts that make Jacob so wonderfully unique.
helped me to see that my need for answers is not wrong, I am not trying to label her, to make excuses for her, I am trying to get answers to understand her better.
Edited to add this
Just another article to help .